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Safety Tips

Safety Tips

Create a plan.

Safety planning is a method of developing tools and resources that could help a victim-survivor and their family in the event of a potentially dangerous situation. Safety planning is not a one-time, one-size fits all. Individualized plans change according to the unique needs of each victim-survivor.

Victim-survivors of domestic violence who need crisis counseling, need help safety planning, or want resource and referral information can call Women Aware’s 24/7 Multilingual Hotline at 732-249-4504 or toll-free 833-249-4504.

Victim-survivors of domestic violence in need of temporary emergency shelter can call the hotline for more information and/or a shelter assessment. Individuals who suspect they are being abused but are not sure can speak to an advocate for information about the dynamics of domestic violence and abuse to get a better understanding of their relationship.

Walk-ins are welcome at the Middlesex County Family Justice Center, 100 Bayard Street, 4th Floor, New Brunswick, between 8:30 a.m. and 4 p.m. Monday through Friday. The FJC is a safe, welcoming space with professional advocates on site during these hours.

Online Safety

Online Safety

Though it is not possible to remain completely anonymous online, there are steps you can take to help protect yourself. Abusers find ways to access email, social media, and password-protected accounts in an effort to exert control over victim-survivors. For tips on Online Safety, visit our Resource Library or the National Network to End Domestic Violence Online Privacy & Safety Tips.

Your pet can get to safety too

Your pet can get to safety too

Victim-survivors of domestic violence and sexual assault may delay seeking emergency shelter because pets cannot accompany them to shelter. Victim-survivors are often unwilling to jeopardize their pet’s health and safety by leaving them at home. Women Aware partners with St. Hubert’s Animal Welfare Center to remove this barrier. St. Hubert’s provides temporary, emergency shelter for companion animals when their guardians are in crisis and need shelter.

Financial abuse causes short and long-term harm

Financial abuse causes short and long-term harm

Research shows that 99% of victim-survivors of domestic violence experience financial abuse. It is one of the main reasons victim-survivors give for choosing to stay in a domestic violence situation. If they are denied access to finances, they do not have the means to support themselves and their children. Family Justice Center partners provide financial advocacy, social services, and counseling to clients.

All are welcome here

All are welcome here

All victim/survivors of abuse are entitled to receive adequate and just services such as filing for a Restraining Order, seeking emergency shelter or obtaining counseling services regardless of sexual orientation and gender identities. The Family Justice Center is a positive safe space, welcoming LGBTQIA+ victim/survivors.